I’m glad I didn’t come to Sweden when I was 31 as my life in America was in full swing and thriving. Being almost 40 when I made the bold move abroad, I left behind an interesting career and enriching social life in New York City. I was ready though and looking forward to getting to know my wife’s country.
Even with top quality or diverse work experience, Sweden is
extremely tough in business for an expat. If you aren’t aware of the job
difficulties, just have a chat with an expat or read one of several articles I
wrote below, including my experience after 5 years in Sweden.
Whether you are a young person (20’s) in America, Europe
or other parts of the world, I implore you to go live in another country for at
least 2 years. Not only will it broaden your world view but will more often
than not give you an unforgettable experience. Sweden is a good choice for youth,
especially if you are looking for an easier way of life. If you want a more interesting challenge, consider a place like Belgrade, Serbia;
where I spent two months living and had a fabulous time!
For those considering the Swedish plunge around age 31, I
encourage you to think carefully about your decision. I’m not saying don’t come
although if you do venture here without doing your research and/or don’t have a
strong union with your Swedish spouse/relationship, an unpleasant experience
could be waiting for you. For those who don't know, most expats come to Sweden for LOVE.
Most I know have had very tough times after
they arrived in Sweden
around 30. Not only were the job opportunities scarce but several had
love relationships they thought were solid yet turned out to be tenuous at
best. A simple piece of advice is to visit Sweden two or three times before
you decide to move here. It’s important to get a feel for the country and its
people and visiting once won’t provide that. In addition, talk privately to as
many expat’s as you can.
Of course there are thirty-something’s who qualify as an exception
to the rule and are flying high in Sweden, yet the majority have taken
serious blows to their careers and future job opportunities. Also, some have
sadly lost their souls.
I was fortunate in that I had met several of my career and
life goals and was ready for the international challenge. It’s been a nice ride
for me, filled with great highs, many challenges and several disappointments. It
has always been interesting though which has been a big positive.
At 21, yes, do come to Sweden or venture abroad anywhere
in our diverse world.
41, a good age as well. Sweden is a calm place to ease into
as long as you have achieved some of your work/life goals previously.
At age 31…..think twice.
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1 comment:
George, you should try to get to know the language. I have said it before and I say it again, it's key.
You will find that people will open up, not only on a private level but also professionally. You will get to know the country better, you will be able to watch television, you will be able to understand what the local gossip is all about, you will be able to get into interesting conversations with your neighbors, you will get to know people in your city.
Moving to another country is not easy, but it has nothing to do with age. It has to do with your own approach to the situation.
You will also see that people respect you in another way if you try to speak the local language. It shows that you care and that you are interested.
I will help you starting from today. I will only speak Swedish with you the entire year of 2013.
I really look forward to read an article by you, where I'm sure you will write about all the doors (personal and professional) which opened up by learning a language.
I know it's scary, but you are a brave man, give it a try! I know you can do it!!
Happy New Year!
Ulrika Appelberg
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